We as humans deal with so many things, we live so many experiences; some good, some bad but every experience Is worth it. Either we enjoy it or we learn from it.
Sometimes, we fail to realize that our experiences are nothing but a result of our actions and the life choices we make. What happens to us is not because of other people, it's because of us; No one can take us out of the problem, except for ourselves. We are the decision-makers, even if it may not always be apparent to us. Everything that occurs in life has a meaning and a purpose, there are no random experiences. The goal is to learn from it all; To grow and raise the level of our awareness. Everything we encounter, every experience we move through, every moment is an opportunity to learn, grow and expand.
Grow through whatever you go through! You might be going through something hard in your life and you might be feeling like there is nothing you can do about it, but the fact is that it might not be visible to you presently but later on, in life, you’ll realize was all worth it. We meet people for a reason. Every experience in your life is being orchestrated to teach you something you need to know to move forward.
Talking about me, I have been through certain things that I probably hated at that moment and thought to myself “why me?”, we all do, don’t we? But now when I look back it all makes sense to me, now I know it was important for me to experience all those things that I did. It was important for me to fall to know that I can stand on my own. I will always be grateful for the people I have in my life, the ones I once had and the ones I’ll meet.
I understand, sometimes things, feelings, people scare us. But what is life if not about risking it all?
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No, I am not saying you to carry your heart on sleeves, I am telling you to do whatever you want to. If it turns out to be not a good experience, then it will teach you something, but at least you won’t regret not taking the risk, right? It’s always either take the risk or lose the chance.
I am sure you might know people who stay happy, free, and cheerful. They stay open at heart because they live their life for they know it’s either living the moment or regretting It later and who wants to do that? Have no regrets! It’s your life to live, live it on your terms.
If you dare nothing, then when the day is over, nothing is all you will have gained. Nothing should change the core of you, be happy, have a happy vibe, keep others happy, go on a solo date, go and text the person you have been wanting to talk to all this time, take that chance, tell people around you that you adore and appreciate them, think good, be good and create a life you will never tired of living. JUST, GO FOR IT!
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The least that can happen is something bad, right? So what? At least you were brave enough to listen to your own heart. It’s always a win-win situation if you decide to look at it that way. You were born a winner, a warrior, one who defied the odds by surviving the most gruesome battle of them all - the race to the egg. And now that you are a giant, why do you even doubt victory against smaller numbers and wider margins? The only walls that exist are those you have placed in your mind. And whatever obstacles you conceive, exist only because you have forgotten what you have already achieved.
Go little rockstar!
Sending good vibes your way :)
The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience.